Sunday, November 20, 2011
Thursday, November 17, 2011
Monday, July 4, 2011
The towns in Livingston County have tried to retain that small town feel, particularly around holiday or festival-type events. There are parades on holidays like Memorial Day and the Fourth of July (so don’t try to make your way down Main Street.) And each town has a handful or more of special celebrations intended to draw people into town.
Though, I would argue that there’s one big thing missing in today’s small town-style celebrations. It’s the sense of community. We don’t know everyone in town any more. And these days, most people will enjoy an entire parade or downtown block party without ever talking to someone they don’t already know. They’ll wave their little American flags at the passing parade, trying not to make eye contact with the Strangers on either side, before shuffling the kids back into the car to drive the few blocks home. And this is in an exceptionally safe community.
With any luck, though, people will continue to attend these events and maybe, just maybe, use them as a way to build community and make new friends. I’m looking forward to being able to walk or bike into town in coming years with my son—not just for the event, but the chance to mingle. If people will mingle in return… so far, my outings to the park have only resulted in discussions with grandparents, who apparently are more willing to chat with an “outsider.”
Sunday, May 8, 2011
Yes, there are STILL more waterfalls in the Pictured Rocks National Lakeshore. Which was a nice consolation prize when we visited in the not-quite-spring before tourist season and found that we were seriously limited in what we could do while in the area.
Sunday, May 1, 2011
We’ve looked at Miner’s Falls and Munising Falls. There are a handful of other waterfalls in the Pictured Rocks National Lake Shore Area.
Another disrespected little waterfall is Scott Falls. No parking area, so we parked on the edge of the road, again.
Sunday, April 17, 2011
This was the first waterfall we visited, and the first sign that our trip was going to include some unforseen snow hazzards!
There was a cone of ice around the base of the falls, formed from the droplets of water splashing upon impact. In fact, though it’s hard to see in these pictures, the cone extends almost up to top of the falls, but behind the water.
Visit the My Town Monday site for other places!
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
A Bo Fexler story
By Clair Dickson
Contains explicit language.
“All right you skinny ass bitch, you asked for it. Imma make you regret saying that shit.” She advanced on me, hands beckoning me closer. I may be blonde, but I'm not stupid. I try not to risk assault charges - or my PI license - on misunderstandings or overreactions. And this was both.
“I'm not here to start trouble.”
“Oh, you got trouble, skank!” She advanced towards me, weaving like a fighter should, but without any rhythm. She was nearly as tall as me, but heavier with broad shoulders and big hands. Hands with half a dozen rings on them. Her friend was similar in size and jewelry choice.
“This isn't a fair fight,” I noted.
She laughed, looking over her shoulder at her friend. “Guess you shoulda thought of that before, huh?”
“Perhaps. So, would it matter if I apologized?” I asked, stepping back, but turning my own hands into fists.
As expected, she responded with, “Imma make sure you learn not to say shit you can't back up.”
“Oh, I can back it up.”
She didn’t let me explain. She swung at me.
I easily knocked the jab aside. “Tonya, look, you don't want to do this,” I said sternly, stepping back again.
“Oh the hell I don't! I'm gonna enjoy given you a beat down.”
“Perhaps. Perhaps not.” I stopped backing away, brought my fists to hip level, spread my feet and bent my knees.
She hesitated, uncertainty written plain across her face. The fiery spirit flickered, like a flame in the gust from a hastily closed door. She was wise to be cautious about my unusual response. But she put her angry face back on and declared, “Oh, bitch, you really asking for it now!” And she took another step closer.
I watched as she rotated her fists in front of her like a boxer in a movie. Then, I shot my fist through an opening and punched her in the face. I'd missed her nose and instead landed on her eye. The impact of my knuckles against her orbital socket fucking hurt. I brought up the other fist and, while she was still reeling, I landed a solid punch to her ample gut, knocking the wind out of her. She took a half step back before dropping to her ass. I finished with a solid kick to her thick skull.
She uttered one last strangled, “Bitch!”
“Correct.” I nodded at her friend, who, wisely, wanted nothing more to do with me. I took a photo from my pocket and tossed it into Tonya’s lap.
She took it up. Her face fell.
“So, you were wrong about me making shit up—your boyfriend is cheating on you. Well, since he was seeing her first, I guess he’s cheating on her with you. Anyway. You were also wrong about me being an easy opponent.”
She handed the photo to her friend.
There was nothing more to say. I left her with her mistakes.